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Do you love her?

02-03-2013, 12:02 AM
#21
Joined: May 2012
Location: New York
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I've been with my girlfriend for almost 8 years. We actually met online (on a gaming site). I'm 27 years old.


First things first, what NOT to do in a relationship (from personal experience):

- Quit worrying if a relationship may or/may not last forever. You'll jinx it. Just go with the flow.

- Jealousy...that can kill a healthy relationship before you even know what happened. So remember to keep that in check. Trust her, if she wants to go out with her friends, don't insist on tagging along (unless invited of course), or try to keep tabs on her when you're not with her.

- Try not to be with each other 110% of the time. In early relationships it's very important coz you're still developing that bond and the trust that will help you grow old together.
By spending half the day together and half the day separate, you each have new stuff to talk about, new experiences to share, etc. Unlike if you spend all day together, you run out things to talk about very quickly coz you've been sharing everything. Hope that makes sense.

- Don't smother her. Sure, sending adorable texts/emails or calling each other constantly is cute at first. But there's a limit. Try to keep it under so neither of you gets sick of it.

- Respect. Respect each other's feelings, opinions, tastes, etc. Don't put each other down, mock or insult each other either with friends or alone. Don't do things that both aren't comfortable with...(yeah you know what I mean, I was 16 once, I know what goes on in that male brain).


Some of these may sound painfully obvious, but trust me...there come times where your emotions may get the best of you and cause you to react negatively.

As JBRUU said: I know it may sound counter intuitive at your age, but your parents are a perfect example on how to do a relationship right! Don't be afraid to discuss it with them.

Nowadays, I know a lot of teens that want to take the "Live Fast, Die Young" approach to their relationships. Those hardly end well from what I've seen. You want to cultivate a healthy relationship from the beginning, build strong foundations that will last well into your old age.

Once again, I'm not saying you are or aren't doing any of this...I just want to make sure to cover the fundamentals.

Just relax and take it slow.

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02-03-2013, 12:15 AM
#22
Joined: Jul 2012
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Originally Posted by metalcasket View Post
Hambo, you're 16...living with one person for the rest of your life is supposed to freak you out. You're young, this relationship is young. Don't think about these things until it's time.

As for growing up, naw dude...that's the great part of being in love; some things stay young forever.

Sound so positive, :/ but yeah i see. we do spend alot of time together and maybe that will make her bored of me.. it's like i loved her so much i held her hand said i love you to her and kissed her on the first day of dating :/ my parents are Asian, they don't even want me to have a gf.. and we moved way to fast ... :/

im a rpg loving kind of guy

02-03-2013, 12:16 AM
#23
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Is it bad that i like touching her butt and body though?
I feel like im being so perverted.

im a rpg loving kind of guy
02-03-2013, 12:24 AM
#24
Joined: May 2010
Location: Texas
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Originally Posted by Hambo12 View Post
Is it bad that i like touching her butt and body though?
I feel like im being so perverted.
Nah dude it's fine. Just don't be one of those people who do it in public.

If you think about it too much now, it won't last forever cuz you'll be worrying about it too much. Just let things happen and it will get better.

If you are already bored with her, try and change the things that bore you. And btw the attachment was claimed invalid so you can't see the pic.

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02-03-2013, 12:27 AM
#25
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Mmm, you can see in this photo but don't stare to much ^.^ and but were only a month, wouldn't doing all this make out and touching get boring in the future?

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i know where your staring, my gf likes to wear tights in school..

im a rpg loving kind of guy

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02-03-2013, 12:27 AM
#26
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Originally Posted by Hambo12 View Post
Is it bad that i like touching her butt and body though?
I feel like im being so perverted.
Forever young, I want to be forever young...
Do you want to live forever... Forever young!!!

Oh boy, what a good question. I think at your age, it is natural to like touching her butt, it is human nature. Maybe it is a time for the birds and bees talk with your parents or maybe jbruu can instruct you further.
02-03-2013, 12:28 AM
#27
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Originally Posted by Pman View Post
Nah dude it's fine. Just don't be one of those people who do it in public.

If you think about it too much now, it won't last forever cuz you'll be worrying about it too much. Just let things happen and it will get better.

If you are already bored with her, try and change the things that bore you. And btw the attachment was claimed invalid so you can't see the pic.
You can see now man, and mmm go with the flow then. I just want to know if first time relationships can last.

im a rpg loving kind of guy
02-03-2013, 12:29 AM
#28
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Originally Posted by Connector View Post
Forever young, I want to be forever young...
Do you want to live forever... Forever young!!!

Oh boy, what a good question. I think at your age, it is natural to like touching her butt, it is natural. Maybe it is a time for the birds and bees talk with your parents or maybe jbruu can instruct you further.
^.^ you can see the picture, who wouldn't be tempted to touch it..

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02-03-2013, 12:31 AM
#29
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Ok but If that's what is interesting you, you have not moved too fast. That stuff happens before people even date. Now if you were moving too fast, might want to talk to the parents first lolol.

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02-03-2013, 12:32 AM
#30
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Originally Posted by Hambo12 View Post
^.^ you can see the picture, who wouldn't be tempted to touch it..
Yes, great graphical assets in that screenshot. That is for sure.