Originally Posted by cloudpuff
I would absolutely hate this idea, the night out and everything is fine but if on our return home I found this set up last thing I'd be is super happy, I'd feel a bit cheated if I'm honest, like all the other stuff only happened because husband wanted leg over. My two friends are with me and they both said they'd be pissed off too unless they had requested sex toys for a gift, which they wouldn't, they'd buy their own.
These are just options, as it depends on the woman... you should know your relationship if she is a bit stuffy like a log or likes lingerie and is playful fun.
(mabe was the sex toys - what kind depends on you; from simple oils to dressup)
I don't see anything wrong with roses, wine and lingerie (and adding in massage oils and candles as an extra) my wife loved it.
If you would have feel cheated then I guess you don't love and value sex in your relationship as a loving daily activity
and might be out of tune with your body or the enjoyment of sex.
At least you have a an option for HIS birthday