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Do you love her?

02-02-2013, 08:55 PM
#11
Joined: May 2012
Location: USA
Posts: 6,711
Little young to be thinking about anything permanent.
02-02-2013, 09:03 PM
#12
Joined: May 2010
Posts: 9,567
I believe love can still last, even after long years of marriage, but it definitely requires a lot of sacrifice and self-giving. You also have to be mature enough to know that this is what's right for the both of you before you make any commitment.

Just my thoughts on the matter.

02-02-2013, 10:33 PM
#13
Joined: Jul 2009
Location: Houston/Austin, TX
Posts: 13,322
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Originally Posted by Hambo12 View Post
No she said im her first bf, so im thinking she think it will be all happy and stuff. She's 15 im 16... And she says we will get married and everything.. But she really doesn't know a lot about relationships. I love her but i know that nothing last forever.
Enjoy the high school years, and take it easy, guy. Like you said, it has only been a month. See how things go. You're in no hurry to pop the question even if it were to happen due to your age. Also, that's a very cynical view, lol.

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02-02-2013, 10:46 PM
#14
Joined: Jul 2012
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Posts: 1,336
We both liked each other since last year.... we talked for two weeks before going out this year.... i don't want to loose her.... maybe a picture of us would show you. Click image for larger version

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she love me too, but it's only a matter of time before the butterflies go away and honeymoon phase.

im a rpg loving kind of guy
02-02-2013, 10:49 PM
#15
Joined: May 2012
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Posts: 15,759
Cute pictures!!!

Enjoy love when you are young, but remember that first boyfriends are always a deeper bond than normal. I really wouldn't recommend marriage until after at least 25 years old nowadays, so don't feel pressured into commitment to marriage just yet. While it's pretty rare that first relationships will last forever, you never know, just enjoy the ride and make sure it is true love before you commit to someone forever. Forever is a very long time.
02-02-2013, 11:01 PM
#16
Joined: May 2010
Location: Deepest Circle, Hell
Posts: 7,078
You're obviously happy now and that's what matters. If you're in love, you're in love. See where that road takes you. It's impossible to predetermine where your relationship will be in X years, but if you want that love and happiness (as well as hopes and dreams) to remain, you should keep at it and deal with whatever curveballs life throws at you. You can't say "the butterflies will go away"...they'll always be there as long as you both want them to be.

I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years now and it sometimes seems like the entire world is against us, but here we are, still going strong...always will be.

"I am virgin, I'm a whore! Giving nothing; the taker, the maker of war!" - Black Sabbath, "I"
02-02-2013, 11:14 PM
#17
Joined: Jul 2012
Location: on the internet
Posts: 1,336
To be honest im probably the insecure one in the relationship. she's really adorable smart and cute (she likes temple run)
but im scared of growing up and being old even though i know everything ages. and really? i love her but living together forever for 50 more years scares me sort of

im a rpg loving kind of guy
02-02-2013, 11:16 PM
#18
Joined: Jul 2012
Location: on the internet
Posts: 1,336
Im only 16 so i be on Facebook all the time and stuff, but how about growing up? no more of this stuff :/ i just want us to last and ill try.

im a rpg loving kind of guy
02-02-2013, 11:22 PM
#19
Joined: May 2012
Location: USA
Posts: 6,711
You're asking some pretty big questions. Have you considered talking some of this out with your parents? I know it might sound cliche but they really are the first people you should turn to at this age.

Often just sitting down with people you trust and have known all your life and having a heart-to-heart conversation can be very helpful and reassuring.
02-02-2013, 11:28 PM
#20
Joined: May 2010
Location: Deepest Circle, Hell
Posts: 7,078
Hambo, you're 16...living with one person for the rest of your life is supposed to freak you out. You're young, this relationship is young. Don't think about these things until it's time.

As for growing up, naw dude...that's the great part of being in love; some things stay young forever.

"I am virgin, I'm a whore! Giving nothing; the taker, the maker of war!" - Black Sabbath, "I"