TA love advice thread <3

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  1. qdiddy

    qdiddy Well-Known Member

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    I just had my first movie date with a girl. We interlocked arms and I held hands with her for the first time. We had so much fun but where do I go from there?
     
  2. psj3809

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    ^Surely this should be a timeout offence !

    Cant you ask your friends ? Asking complete strangers on an internet forum about something like this doesnt sound like the best thing

    Where do you go from the movie theatre ? Back home ! ;)
     
  3. coolpepper43

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    ban him!!!!
     
  4. qdiddy

    qdiddy Well-Known Member

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    D: come on guys! I trusted you!
     
  5. JBRUU

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    Ask her again, but go somewhere where you can interact with each other instead of a movie. Laser tag, rock climbing, hike, bowling, ice cream, carnival, etc, the idea is to have fun together. I'm guessing you're pretty young if this is your first date, so just take it slow, enjoy yourself and be yourself. It isn't a big deal and you'll go out with countless girls over your lifetime, they're people just like you so treat them with respect and you'll be fine.
     
  6. qdiddy

    qdiddy Well-Known Member

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    Is 19 young? I understand what you're saying, and I'm probably freaking out over nothing
     
  7. JBRUU

    JBRUU Well-Known Member

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    Thought you were 15 or something, I'm 19 lol
     
  8. S.I.D. CrAzY

    S.I.D. CrAzY Well-Known Member

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    Give her the D, OP.
     
  9. qdiddy

    qdiddy Well-Known Member

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    Ouch, that hurts bruh
     
  10. Elsa

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    You go to a Frozen sing along movie and sing "Love is an Open Door" together.
     
  11. drelbs

    drelbs Well-Known Member

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    But Hans... :eek:

    Seriously? Don't worry about it.

    Be yourself, see if she'd like to go do something you also find fun and see where things go. Hold her hand. Smile.
     
  12. qdiddy

    qdiddy Well-Known Member

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    I dunno, Elsa has a good point xD
     
  13. Elsa

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    #13 Elsa, May 7, 2015
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    But, as the rumor on the internet goes, chicks dig
    bad guys
    .

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  14. Echoseven

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    If you really want a girl to like you, take her somewhere exciting to get her heart racing. It's a well established fact that people in general (and particularly those of the female persuasion) will transfer feelings of excitement and arousal onto the person they're with. (alertness and the "rush", not the sexual kind of arousal)

    One of the most arousing things is a rickety bridge beside a waterfall, apparently. We don't have one of those nearby, but I've taken a few ladyfriends up to a waterfall to look down from dizzying heights and damn, it works. Rock climbing is a decent example, too.

    The only times I've gone on a movie-dinner date was when I was thirteen and with my girlfriend of 3+ years, because there's movies we want to see. :p
     
  15. ninjackid

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    Laser tag is never a good idea.
     
  16. qdiddy

    qdiddy Well-Known Member

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    Don't worry, we'll get there depression man.
     
  17. JBRUU

    JBRUU Well-Known Member

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    Generalizations are never a good idea. That was one of our best dates, ever.
     
  18. JCman7

    JCman7 Well-Known Member

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    Best advice: stay single lol
     
  19. TheOutlander

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    -Your Wallet, 2015
     
  20. nemerleb

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    Get that shameless promo Elsa in preparation of your sequel!
     

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